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"he's just not that into you"


男性を理解するための女性のための本として
数年前にアメリカで大ブレイクした本です。


この世的な本なので
私からは特におすすめはしませんが、
友達がメールしてくれた内容。
う～ん、
真実が隠れている？と思いました。


数年前に一度メールで教えてくれたのに、
同じ内容のメールがまた送られてきました！！
なんと、この本が映画化されるというもので。。。



友達のメールをコピペしておきますね。
独身女性のみなさま、
ご参考程度にお楽しみください。


* he's just not that into you if he's not asking you out.


* An excuse is a polite rejection. Men are not afraid of "ruining the friendship."


* Don't get tricked into asking him out. If he likes you, he'll do the asking.


* If you can find him, then he can find you. If he wants to find you, he will.


* "Hey, let's meet at so-and-so's party/any bar/friend's house" is not a date.


* Men don't forget how much they like you. So put down the phone.


* You are good enough to be asked out.


* If a guy truly likes you, but for personal reasons he needs to take things slow, HE WILL LET YOU KNOW THAT IMMEDIATELY. He won't keep you guessing, because he'll want to make sure you don't get frustrated and go away.


* he's just not that into you if he's not calling you.


* "Give me a call." "Email me." Don't let him trick you into asking him out. When men want you, they do the work. I know it sounds old school, but when men like women, they ask them out.


* If he's not calling you, it's because you are not on his mind.


* If he likes you, he'll still remember you after the tsunami or flood. If he doesn't, he's not worth your time.


* Don't let the "honeys" and "babys" fool you. His sweet nothings are exactly that. They are much easier to say than "I'm just not that into you." Remember, actions speak louder than words.


*If I like you, I don't forget you, ever. Don't you want the guy who'll forget about all the other things in his life before he forgets about you?


* If he creates expectations for you, and then doesn't follow through on little things, he will do the same for big things. Be aware of this and realize that he's okay with disappointing you.


* If he's choosing not to make a simple effort that would put you at ease and bring harmony to a recurring fight, then he does not respect your feelings and needs.


* There is a guy out there who will want to tell everyone that he's your boyfriend. Quit goofing around and go find him!


PS: Don't spend your time on and give your heart to any guy who makes you wonder about anything related to his feelings for you.