究極の損得勘定!!
こんばんは。最近、強く思うのは自分に起こることは何かを気づかせる為に起こっているのではないか?と思うようになりました。たとえ悪いことが起こっても何かを気づかせる為に起こっていると思うと考え方が変わります。たとえば、私に非がないことが起こったとしますよね。悪いことをしていないのにどうしてこんなことが起こるのかなあ。と思ったときに何か勉強をさせる為に起こっているのではないか?と思えてきました。たとえば、電車に乗って周りで自分をいらいらさせる人がいるとしますよね。いらいらさせる人がいると前は思ってしまいましたが、今は何かの勉強だ。自分の許容量を広げてくれる人がまた現れた。わくわくしてきたなあ。と思うようになりました。これは何かの修行に間違いない!と勝手に心の中で思って、笑ってしまった人の勝ちです。周りの人はいらいらさせようとは思っていません。勝手に私がいらいらしているだけなんですね。それを相手を変えようとすると争い事になります。変えられるのは自分の心だけです。そして偶然に起こることはこの世の中何もないと思うと何かの為に起こっているんだと思えるようになります。たとえ悪いことが自分に起こったとしてもそれは何かの暗示かもしれないと思えると面白くなってきます。いらいらさせることは何も起こっていない。ただいらいらしている自分がいるだけ。それを変えるには自分の心の方向を変えるしかないですね。昨晩も父親と話した内容なのですが、父が「物は考えよう。幸せを思えば、幸せになって。不幸せだと思えば不幸せになるんだよな。最近、気付いたよ。」と言っていました。昔、レストランで注文取りに来ない店員に向かって「遅いよ。早く持って来い!」とあれだけ切れていた父親が、今では店員が注文の品を持ってくると「ありがとう」と言っている姿を見ていたら、人は変わるんだなあと感心してしまいます。ものは考えよう。気にしなければ怒ることは何も起こらない。英語で言うと「There is no problem」何も問題はない。そう思った人の勝ちです。怒って一番損するのは自分自身です。怒って胃が痛くなったりストレスを溜めたり、良いことは一つもない。怒っても相手には何もダメージがない。だから究極の損得勘定で自分の為に、何があっても怒らない、切れない、気にしない。そんな気がしてきました。ではまた。Good evening. I came to regard [ whether happening to oneself has happened in order to make something notice, and ] thinking recently that it is strong as ?. If you think that it has happened in order to make something notice, even if a bad thing happens, a view will change. For example, suppose that it happened that I do not have non-. Why does such a thing happen to having not done the bad thing? When it considers, in order to make some study, I have thought [ whether it has happened and ] ?. For example, suppose that there are those who a train is taken [ those ] and irritate them to the surroundings. Although the front has thought that there are those who make it irritated, they are some study now. Those who extend their maximum permissible dose appeared again. It has been exciting. I came to consider. This is the victory of those who thought in the heart that was selfish with infallible ! to some practice, and have smiled at them. The surrounding man does not think that you will make it irritated. I am only irritated freely. If it is going to change a partner, it will fight for it, and it becomes things. Only its heart is changed. And I can think now that happening by chance will have happened for something if it thinks that there is nothing in this world. It will become interesting, if it can think that they may be some hints even if a bad thing happens to itself. Nothings that are made to be irritated have happened. There is only a one merely irritated. The direction of its heart must be changed into changing it. although it is the contents said as the father last evening also -- a father -- "-- a man is well or woe as he thinks himself so. If you consider happiness, become fortunate. It will become unhappy if you think that it is unhappy. Recently, he has noticed. It was called ". the salesclerk who does not come to a salesman at a restaurant a long time ago -- going -- "-- it is late. Bring early! If the person to whom only that had run out as " is now catching a sight which the salesclerk has said with "thank you" brings the article of an order, people will be impressed as changing. A thing will think. If it does not care, nothings with which it gets angry happen. if it says in English -- "There is no problem" -- anything does not have a problem. It is the victory of the person who thought so. It is itself who is lost most angrily. Getting angry, the stomach becomes painful, stress is accumulated, or a good thing does not have one. Even if it gets angry, anything does not have a damage to a partner. Therefore, it is not made the mind with which it does not get angry in ultimate profit-and-loss calculation whatever there may be for itself and which does not go out. Such a mind has carried out. then -- again .