あなたは肯定的?否定的?
こんばんは。今日は「あなたは肯定的?否定的?」というお話です。最近、気づいたのですが、一緒にご飯を食べに行って肯定的な友達は何を食べても「おいしいね」と言うのですが、否定的な友達と食事をすると決まって「これ、ちょっと脂っこくない?」とか「これ薄味だよね」とやたらと文句をつけるのです。これはどんな内容でも同じです。仕事の話をするにしても、プライベートな話をするにも肯定的な人は「楽しいこと」しか話をしません。逆に否定的な人はずっと愚痴、文句、泣き言、悪口のオンパレード。これは不思議だと思いませんか?同じ状況の人でも楽しく感じている人もいれば、文句を言う人がいる。これは考え方の問題で、その現象は同じなんですね。だから、愚痴、文句、泣き言を言っている人はどんなに良い状況になっても同じように愚痴、文句、泣き言を言い続けると思います。そういう人と食事すると本当に美味しい料理も台無しです。どんな物を食べても「おいしいね」と言える人に私は魅力を感じます。どんなつまらない話をしても楽しそうに笑顔でいる人に私は魅力を感じます。あるシェフの方がこう言っていました。「何を食べるかよりも誰と食べるかで美味しい、美味しくないかは決まってしまうんです」私もそう思います。肯定的な人と一緒にいると楽しいし、話も盛り上がります。誰も愚痴、文句、泣き言、悪口を聞いて、元気になる人はいません。話の内容を聞いているとすぐに肯定的な人か、否定的な人か、すぐに分かります。私はなるべく否定的な人が来たら避けるようにしています。なぜなら話をずっと聞いていると自分も否定的な考えに引っ張られてしまうからです。元気がほしいときは明るい、楽しい元気な人と一緒にいるとなぜだかこちらも元気になってしまいます。^^不思議ですね。Good evening. It is the talk "you are affirmative negative ?" today. carrying out a negative friend and a negative meal, although it says, "it is delicious" whatever it may go to eat boiled rice together and an affirmative friend may eat recently, although he has noticed -- being decided -- "-- this -- it is not slightly greasy -- ?" -- "-- this -- it is light-seasoned -- " -- -- it complains inexcessively. This is the same from any contents. Even if it talks about work, as for a person affirmative also for carrying out the private talk, only "a pleasant thing" talks. On the contrary, a negative person is on parade [ of a grumble, a complaint, complaints, and slander ] all the time. Don't you think that this is wonderful? If there is also a man of the same situation who feels happily, there are those who complain. This is the problem of a view and the phenomenon is the same. Therefore, even if those who have said a grumble, a complaint, and complaints become a however good situation, they think that he continues saying a grumble, a complaint, and complaints similarly. If it has a meal with such a man, a really delicious dish is also spoilt. No matter what thing it may eat, I feel charm for those who can say, "It is delicious." No matter petty talk [ what ] it may carry out, I feel charm for those who are with smile happily. Those [ chef / a certain ] were in the word like this. I "it will be decided [ delicious ] by with whom it eats from what is eaten that it will be whether to be delicious" also think so. If it is together with an affirmative person, it will be pleasant and the talk will also rise. Who hears a grumble, a complaint, complaints, and slander and there are not those who become fine. Shortly after hearing the contents of the talk, it understands immediately in an affirmative person and a negative person. I am made to avoid if as negative a person as possible comes. It is because he will also be pulled by the negative idea as hearing the talk. If it is together with a fine bright pleasant person when you want energy, I am why or it will become fine also here. ^^. see you.