何のために頑張るのか?
こんにちは。今日は「何のために頑張るのか?」というお話です。私たちは幼いときから「がんばれ、がんばれ」と教育されてきました。良い学校に入って、良い会社に入って、良い給料を貰って、その先に幸せがあるのでしょうか?周りと比べて少しでも上に行くように教育されてきました。でも、その先には恐らく幸せは待っていないと思います。人と比べている限り幸せって手に入らないと思います。自分は自分。人は人。こう思えて、自分が好きになれたら他人も好きになれると思います。比べている限り幸せはやってこないと思います。今、テレビの宣伝でも子供に向かって「がんばれ、がんばれ」と言う親が出てきて、子供が親に対して「何のために頑張るの?」と問いかけるCMが放送されてます。その答えを出せる親がどれだけいるのか疑問です。人は何のために生きているのか?それは「周りの人にどれだけ喜ばれる存在になるか」それだけだと思います。自分と他人を比べてどれだけ自分が上かを競うのは意味のないことで、ただ単純に「どれだけ喜ばれる人間になるか」これだけだと思います。周りに喜ばれたら、自分自身も生きがいを感じられること間違いありません。他人と競ってどれだけ上に行くことを考えている人は「何で、生きているんだろうか?」と悩んでいる方が物凄く多いような気がします。だから、これからの世の中は競わない、争わない、そのような世界になるのではないでしょうか?100年くらいかかるかもしれませんが。ではまた。^^Hello. It is the talk "for what purpose it does its best" today. It has been educated saying from from, we "need to do [ do your best and ] our best", when young. Does it go into a good school, go into a good company, and is a good salary got, and is happiness in the point? It has been educated so that it may go upwards compared with the surroundings. But probably at the point, I think that it is not waiting for happiness. As long as it compares with people, happiness thinks that it does not obtain. He is himself. People are men. It can consider like this, and if he can take to it, I will think that others can also take to it. I think that happiness is not come, as long as it compares. Now, the parents who say advertisement of television also "should do [ do your best and ] its best" toward a child come out, and CM which a child asks to parents, "For what purpose does it do its best?" is broadcast. The parents who can take out the answer are questions about which is. for what purpose people are alive -- ? -- I regard it as it being only it "or." I compare myself with others and think that he competing for whether it being a top is are meaningless, and which is merely only this simply "or." If around nice, he is not different between the ability to feel definite aim in life, either. Those who consider that compete with others and which goes upwards feel many [ worrying extremely / Direction / in order that "you may be / You are what. / alive" ]. Therefore, doesn't a future world become such the world for which it does not compete and for which it does not fight? It may take about 100 years. then --see you again . ^^