Am I a Loser ??
I had a massive argument with my future boss yesterday...My company is opening an office in Dubai and I've asked for a transfer which has already been accepted. Although I had some doubts about this boss, I decided to stick to it since it was very difficult for me to get a job in this part of the world...To cut a long story short, he didn't give me a chance to explain why I couldn't have produced the work he expected me to do. He just shouted at me. (as far as I know, no one at my work has ever complained about my work and my current boss is very sad to see me going as he is happy with my work) He basically judged my performance based on 2 occasions I've only worked for him.I love my work and people I work with. But once I move to Dubai, I will be alone with this new boss for the first couple of months and I don't know if I can stand it. I loathe the idea of letting down some people who have put an effort for my Dubai position. (If I pull out they have to find a new person and train her!) However, I have to think about myself. It can be very stressful at work because of the nature of my company's business. Therefore, I don't want a problem at personal level!! I can't see myself performing well for a person who shouts at me. If I have a good connection or a relationship with a boss I could do my job well but I don't know if I can have that sort of relationship with this twxx (sorry!)I don't want to lose my job because of him but I can't stand him. I wonder if I should hang on to it for a while and see what happens but...Am I a loser ?? childish ?? immature ?? or chicken (こけーっ!笑)??