Why you go to China to have a baby?
My wife has been pregnant for 3 months. Yesterday she went to a hospital in Sydney to see the midwives. It was her first time to tell the medical staffs that she was going to China to give her first birth, followed by a bunch of negative comments from them,- Why you are going to China?- If you knew you were pregnant, do you still go to China?- Do you have any ways to stay in Australia to give birth?Their comments made her a bit uncomfortable. She felt it was pointless to discourage her from going to China, because she has already made that decision, as the result of consideration.In Australia, it is the common perception that China is a developing country and its medical quality is not on par with that of the developed world, therefore it will be of higher risks to give birth in China compared with Australia. I understand their point of view. Having said that, I agree with my wife in that their comments are useless. Once she decided to relocate herself to China, they cannot help her anyway. Now she is taking "China country risks" and the midwives have no idea what the risks are, I think the right answer is to accept her decision then just say all the best to her.Life is a journey and everyone's journey is differrent. I don't know much of your life, so my words are always simple, "Good luck and enjoy your journey."